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Getting those sonograms while your pregnant are very exciting. It can give you one of the best feelings you will ever have. Starting from about six weeks of pregnancy you can get your first sonogram. This shows your uterus, the amniotic sack and of course you little baby. At around six weeks the baby is very small and measures about a fifth to a quarter of an inch. At your second sonogram your baby will be a little bigger and start to look more like a baby.
At around twenty weeks , your doctor will probably schedule you for a fetal anatomy. This is one of the most detailed ultrasounds you will receive. It is very exciting to see your baby at this stage because you can really see all the parts. The fetal anatomy checks all of your baby’s parts, like the brain, the heart, the face, the spine, the arms, the hands, the legs and the feet. This ultrasound is clear enough that you can see your baby’s fingers and sometimes your baby might be moving around.
While some people think that housing, government, politics, entertainment, mortgages, banking, philosophy, and religion are among the most interesting subjects of intellectual discussion I believe that the care and education we have about our children and the birth and development of our children, may rank even higher. I, Isaac Robert Toussie, believe that children are our future, and if you pardon my expression, I believe they represent the greatest miracle G-d has ever given us.
Your doctor will want to see about every four weeks for a checkup. At every visit the doctor usually checks, your urine for sugar and protein levels, your blood pressure, your weight and the baby’s heartbeat. Hearing you baby’s heartbeat is one of the best sounds you will ever hear. Your doctor may also check the size and shape of your uterus externally. Be sure to discuss any symptoms you may be feeling with your doctor. Don’t feel shy to ask your doctor any questions you may have. They are there to help you and to make you feel secure.
By the end of your third trimester, mainly the last month of pregnancy, your doctor will probably want to see you every week. Besides for the usual things your doctor checks for, he will also check your cervix by internal examination to see if you have begun dilating. The doctor will also check the height of the fundus and the fetal size and position. I don’t recall the extent of President George Bush’s or President Obama’s campaign focus on children and issues concerning children but future presidents would surely be praised for focusing on children during their campaigns and later during their presidential tenures.
This writing has been posted by me, Isaac Toussie, strictly for informational and human interest purposes only, not for medical or for advisory purposes and was written by a lay person (me, Isaac Toussie). The reader should not rely upon the validity of any of the information contained herein. The reader is urged to consult doctors, nutritionists, and other medical professionals when seeking advice about babies, children, science, human physiology and the like

We hear a great deal these days about the prospects for a major outbreak of a flu pandemic, particularly the swine flu. We’re likely to be particularly concerned if we’re mums who have young children, and from doing everything we can to keep them from getting sick.

Without a doubt, this is certainly easier said than done! For working mothers, the thought of being caught in a pandemic is more than we can handle, as if there isn’t already enough to worry about in our day to day lives!

One of the main drawbacks of being a mother that works is the fact that for the most part our schedule doesn’t have much flexibility. We have to continuously balance so many things to ensure that we fulfil all of our working commitments while ensuring our children are well taken care of too. When we hear the (often much exaggerated) horror stories about swine flu, this only serves to add another thing to worry about on an often already long list of worries.

If you find yourself worrying constantly, it may be a signal for you to look to professional coaching or online life coaching to learn from professionals and fellow mums who have personally experienced your concerns.

Swine flu, or H1N1, has been called a global pandemic due to the expected number of human to human transmission cases. It’s simply too complex for us to have any idea how it could effect us individually or collectively, and how it might impact the systems, processes, and essential networks that we usually rely on. As such, a working mum needs to focus on what she can do to plan for the worst within these fluid parameters.

It goes without saying that the first thing to do is look at how you can make sure that each member of the family is as healthy as possible. This means keeping up with physical activity, working out, trying to manage stress, eating well, remaining hydrated and getting an optimum amount of sleep. This goes for all members of the family – which includes you! Schedules should be adjusted and habits modified. No longer is it okay to let any of these slide as we need to be as healthy as possible to stave off infection.

We may have to practise a certain amount of “social distancing,” if the swine flu spreads rapidly or mutates. This generally means good hygiene, washing your hands often, using a good hand sanitizers and as difficult as it may seem, try to get yourself and your family out of any habits such as touching your face.

Schools are of course particularly vulnerable and the swine flu is likely to spread quickly in places where children are present. Should schools be closed, you will need to be prepared for the eventuality. This will mean looking into emergency day-care, help from family or friends.

You will need to take a good look at your work situation and see if it would be possible for you to do some of it from home if needed. If your children need nursing then you cannot realistically expect a sitter to be able to this and you should be there anyway to pay close attention to their recovery.

Without going overboard, make sure that you stock up on non-perishable food and other necessities. For example, keep a stock of ready meals in your freezer if you have one. If you are in the UK, I recommend “Cook” foods, which you can order online. All their ready meals are hand cooked with no artificial ingredients. They’re not cheap, but I can vouch for them being delicious and it’s handy to have a selection in. Imagine feeling really poorly but still having to cook meals for you and your family…not conducive to you getting better! You will be grateful of a meal that you can just throw the oven or microwave and still be sure you and your family are eating healthy and nutritious meals!

As a working mum, check to see what your company’s policies and procedures are regarding a potential major outbreak of swine flu. Hopefully your company will be flexible and sympathetic. If you feel that they are not, or want more information about how to deal with an employer in your situation, you could check out coaching for women and help online.

If you or a family member falls ill with the swine flu, pay close attention to the symptoms and what your doctor may advise. Whilst the majority of cases are likely to be mild, be aware of what you should be on the lookout for and have a plan in place to deal with everything appropriately.

Amanda Alexander is the Managing Director of Coaching Mums. She is a celebrated ICF accredited coach, who for over six years, has been helping thousands of working mums from around the World bring balance back into their lives, lose their guilt, find the time to explore their passions, and generally, to have a lot more fun! For fantastic articles and hot professional coaching tips, sign up to receive “Inspire,” our famous free newsletter today!

Many children all over the country may have experienced the horror of having to deal with a father who is abusive emotionally. This is maybe the most common occurrence of emotional abuse but this is certainly not the only one. Hundreds and thousands of people have psychological scars caused by a parent, a friend, a sibling or even a spouse being abusive emotionally and these scars are not ones which are easy to heal. Many are hesitant to tell others about a loved one who is abusive emotionally mainly out of fear but also because they think about the stigma the loved one would have to undergo if their true nature is known to the public.As a result, a significant number of incidents concerning individuals who are abusive emotionally are not exposed to the public and, hence this issue continues to prevail in society.

Covering up or hiding an individual who is abusive emotionally will not bring about a solution to the problem.On the contrary the problem could steadily worsen and could lead to disastrous events like suicides or even murders. People and especially children who are subjected to emotional abuse might in turn become individuals who are abusive emotionally and thus the vicious cycle would continue if no solution is given to the problem.

Counseling is one common solution to the problem and in the case of a father who happens to be abusive emotionally, family counseling is almost always recommended. Problems of this nature are best left in the hands of an experienced professional and though loved ones of the person in question could help the person to some degree, it is unlikely that untrained people would be successful in dealing with a person who is abusive emotionally. Guidance and help in handling such problems can be easily found as there are numerous trained counselors and institutions across the country to help individuals who are abusive emotionally.

An individual who is abusive emotionally can be identified relatively easily. Generally, an emotionally abusive individual tries to control you, blames and puts you down for no sensible reason, displays physical violence by breaking or smashing things and warns you that he/she will leave you if you disregard their advice.

A person who is emotionally abusive could affect you in several ways such as leaving you with low self-confidence, low enthusiasm and might even be disastrous to your health and therefore, emotional abuse should be dealt with at the earliest possible instance.

People may have big hearts and lots of love, but have trouble giving others gifts. Gifts can be a difficult topic to address for some, simply because gifts can be so special. A gift can say a million different things, or have to do with a special memory, or portray an extraordinary message. And yet, in a material world where there are so many gift ideas, and so much stuff in general, it is hard to choose a heartfelt gift. It can be very difficult to choose one idea when the media is pulling you in a variety of directions. The truth is, simplicity and timelessness is the key. A person can say more with less. Although, greeting cards should not always be the definition of simple and timeless. There are ways to be thoughtful and unique when giving a gift. Jewelry is meant for anyone, for those who know what they want to give as well as those who cannot decide. Jewelry is that one present that may be worth so much it can be worn every day for the rest of a person’s life. Wedding rings are just one example of timeless gifts that can be worn forever and still have meaning. But remember, jewelry alone is not what makes a gift special. The message that lies behind the jewelry is what really makes the gift heartfelt and special. And the best way to give your gift’s message is by personalizing it. Personalized Pendants are examples of gifts of jewelry with a special message. The message is what makes the gift precious.

Naturally, there are causes for gift-giving several times a year. A person may not know how to always choose the right gift, but for the biggest and most heartfelt moments, personalized jewelry is a winner. Personalized Rings are what make regular wedding bands extraordinary in a marriage ceremony. And there are so many occasions, from birthdays to promotions, that personalized jewelry is a perfect gift for. So for everyone who doubts their abilities to give, just speak from the heart. Jewelry with a message of “I Love You Now and Always” engraved upon it can be very powerful. Personalized jewelry can be the vessel between two people and their shared love for each other.

Don’t fret when trying to make your gift unique. With the right kind of message, heartfelt, and the right style, simple, there is no going wrong. Something simple like Personalized Bracelets are sometimes the biggest gifts of all.

Over 43% of deaths in Canada in 2000 were cremated and in Canadas western provinces over half of the funerals involved cremation.

Cremation can take pressure off loved ones and bereaved spouses and more older adults are looking into the benefits of cremation. With the rising costs of dying there are not only financial advantages to cremation but also a wider choice in scheduling memorial events and gathering of the family.

Also with cremation, paperwork is involved along with basic life records. The following papers should be known by close family and kept in an agreed on place in which to ensure a passing is a less stressful time for family.

Mother’s Maiden Name, Life Insurance, Social Security Number, Military Records , Divorce or Marriage Documents.

All the above information will be required for a death certificate and any other paperwork involved in cremation. Cremation normally occurs in the crematorium closest to the place of death and is performed within at least 24 hours or within, the most, 6 days of the time of death.

You only have to make your wish known verbally to your family or through a written note left with official documents if you want to have a funeral with cremation.
A purpose built ceremonial room is used after the cremation to hand over the ashes.

Family plots can also be used and cemeteries normally allow the interment of more than one person in an adult space if cremation has occurred. Specially designed Urn Gardens can be found in most cemeteries.

The ashes can temporarily be kept in the crematorium for a short while whilst the family reflect on the disposition of the ashes.

If the family do not take possession of the ashes, they maybe dispersed in the Remembrance Garden.
Normally, the funeral director performs equal professional functions regarding cremations as in any other service.

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In whatever circumstances you’re in and however you came to be a single mum, after a certain period of time you’ll likely start looking for romance once again! Sooner or later you may consider re-entering the dating arena. But you might feel that you are a little “rusty” for dating and of course, you are not exactly a single entity, either! You might feel that you need coaching for women in your situation to plan how to attract “Mr Right”!

First of all, start with giving yourself a good talking to! You need to tell yourself that it is fine and normal to seek the attention of another man. Society is full of preconceived notions and you may encounter resistance from certain “friends,” acquaintances or fellow workers advising you, subtly or directly not to do so. Tip number one – make sure that you take the time to give yourself permission!

If you’re getting ready to enter the dating game once again, prepare yourself for the reactions of your children. It’s crucial that you anticipate their questions – and along with them, possibly a fair amount of hostility. After all, someone else might want some of your time too, from now on. Have an honest and open conversation with the children and don’t be tempted to tell half-truths or even open lies. Explain that mummy needs to be with her new friends, just as they do with theirs. A little time spent in preparation this way will pay dividends later on. Tip number two – be open with the kids!

Don’t obsess about finding a man. Understand that you’re currently getting along well in your role as a single mum and you don’t want to jeopardise that under any circumstances. After all, you are far more likely to attract the right man if you don’t come over as needy and desperate. Therefore, you should not put too much emphasis on your man-seeking activities to the point of obsession. It’s OK to look and make an effort to “see and be seen” in appropriate social circumstances, but keep it in check and remember to enjoy the process rather than making it into a mission. Tip number three – everything in moderation!

You are quite rightly proud of your kids, as they are of you. It takes a gentle introduction however when it comes to your new man interests. Never be apologetic about your family. On the contrary, especially as you should have a good idea how he is likely to react to the idea of children. You would scarcely want to go further than the first encounter if you thought it would be negative. While a gentle introduction is called for, don’t think that you have to roll the kids out every time that you meet. There’s a time and place for integration, gently does it best. Tip number four – integrate gently!

It’s perfectly normal and understandable to think about how the potential “he” might make a good father figure and to wonder whether your new man may be the answer. Don’t be tempted to put too much pressure on the situation by leaning on him. Making him an automatic father figure won’t work and you shouldn’t impose on him to do pseudo-parenting duties right away. It’s not okay to ask him to pick up the kids from school every day. Tip number five – don’t allocate roles!

It can be difficult sometimes, but always keep your head on straight when you’re in the early days of dating. If you fall head over heels, you will probably want to spend time with him, but you must be able to balance this with your other commitments. The children are a priority until such time as your relationship becomes more grounded and looks like it’s set for the long-term. Tip number six – keep your head on straight!

Being a single mum is difficult, especially if you’re trying to balance a demanding career as well. Remember that online life coaching is designed to be a helping hand in time of need for those who seem to have little time to devote to anything and are seeking answers to difficult questions.

Amanda Alexander is the Managing Director of Coaching Mums. She is a celebrated ICF accredited coach, who for over six years, has been helping thousands of working mums from around the World bring balance back into their lives, lose their guilt, find the time to explore their passions, and generally, to have a lot more fun! For fantastic articles and hot professional coaching tips, sign up to receive “Inspire,” our famous free newsletter today!

Unfortunately when a loved one dies, grieving friends and family are quickly confronted with dozens of decisions to make regarding the funeral service. Usually when people make arrangements for a funeral service they assume the ceremony is for the deceased but actually it is for the mourning friends and family.
Funerals are in memory of our loved ones and are a way in which friends and family can share their feelings and emotionsand pay their respects to the deceased.

In Canada, most funerals are divided into three sections.

Visitation – Usually takes place one or two days prior to the funeral itself in an open casket, or if you prefer a closed casket, so family and friends can pay their respects. A book, given to the deceaseds family, is autographed and records emotions and feelings felt by friends and family. Many families also show photographs and prize possessions at the Visitation. This service usually ends with a prayer service (at a Catholic funeral the service may also include a Rosary)

Funeral – Actual funeral services are influenced allot by cultural and religious traditions. You may opt for a elaborate service or a private and simple affair. All families are different and not everybody wants the same kind of funeral. A traditional funeral includes a formal service, a hearse to transport the body to the funeral site and either a burial or cremation of the body.

Funeral services will normally include prayers and readings from the Bible. In many cases a family member or close friend of the deceased will be asked to give a speech of happy memories and any achievements the deceased may have made. These speeches and prayers provide comfort for family and friends who are mourning.

Burial – The funeral service is concluded with a burial service.
Close friends and relatives of the deceased can carry the casket from the chapel to the hearse and then after from the hearse to the site. A burial service is then held at the side of the grave.
In many traditions a gathering of friends and family will take place after the burial either at the church or at another location.

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It doesn’t matter when the grief process begins. Whether you begin feeling the symptoms of grief after the loss of a loved one or even before, the process is a long and difficult one. Taking weeks and sometimes months the grieving process itself varies in terms of intensity and length and is different for each person in each culture. When grief strikes it’s important to know that you have resources available to you and your family to help you deal with your grief and Hospice facilities can offer that. You and your family deserve that peace of mind.

Grief is interpreted and handled differently in different cultures. Depending on how a culture perceives death and views the passing of a person will drastically alter how a person expresses grief. Most commonly grief is expressed as a feeling of sorrow, anger or emotional detachment and can vary in terms of intensity and symptoms.

When the grieving process strikes a person who is currently unable to properly address it they may repress their grief. Someone who is currently forced to care for others or who is overwhelmed with practical daily obligations is likely to repress and withdraw their feelings of grief only to have them surface again at a later date. People like this may eventually need to deal with their grief and may require counseling to help them through the process.

In other cases a person may deal with their grief openly but become lost in it. These situations tend to occur when a person is overwhelmed by their grief and become unable to sort through it on their own. In these cases a person may begin to shut down physically and psychologically and begin to succumb to their depression as it impacts their daily life. These people will desperately need the assistance of a grief counseling professional to regain a sense of normalcy in their daily lives and get back to their routine. Finding good Hospice Care can be hard.

In cases such as these a person may need the assistance of grief counseling. Luckily many hospice facilities have on-site grief counseling services to assist patient’s families as they begin this difficult and trying ordeal. When looking for a hospice facility, prospective patients should always make it a point to find out if their particular facility offers grief counseling services to ensure their loved ones are taken care of.

In most cases, grief counseling consists of talking openly about a patient’s feelings of grief and loss. During these discussions a patient will disclose and speak openly about their fears and frustrations as a way of sorting out their feelings. Exploring the patient’s doubts and forcing them to understand the challenges and fears that they may be harboring is part of the guided healing process that grief counseling attempts to facilitate.

In the most intense cases of grief and depression, a patient may be recommended to ‘grief therapy’. Unlike counseling, grief therapy attempts to address more extreme and crippling forms of grief and depression with clinical tactics designed to expose and eliminate deep psychological forms of grief and trauma.

The passing of a loved one may be one of the most emotionally difficult experiences of a person’s life. There’s no reason to force a loved one or yourself to struggle through these difficult situations alone. Seeking out the trained and capable grief counseling and therapy staff at a Hospice Nursing facility ensures that you have a caring and qualified professional to help you when you need it most. Check out a lot of Medicaid Hospice facilities before choosing one.

A couple’s wedding day is planned for months, and gone in hours, which is why it is important to find the right photographer to capture every moment. Bridal websites and magazines are good sources for tips on finding photographers. Talk to your married friends for referrals, or warnings. Google local photographer websites. Make a list of the prices from the sites to compare. Is there anything else you can do?.Here are a few tips; things that Stuart Cooper, a Hampshire wedding photographer, suggest doing to take your hunt beyond the usual.

Tip 1.
Visiting a website is crucial, but photographers suggest that you look at these photos with a slightly closer eye.A close look at the couples these photos might be very revealing.Do they look like they just stepped off a movie screen?. If the answer is the latter, the couples could be models hired by the photographer. You should have serious concerns about using a photographer who does not post photos of actual weddings.

Tip 2.
Each wedding photographer has his or her own distinct style. You may love the photos on one particular site, but if that person does not produce the type of photos you have in mind, it will not be a good paring.If you know that you want very formal photos, you should rule out photographers who gear toward the more candid moments and vice versa.

Tip 3.
Wedding photographer’s prices differ as much as their style.The first thing to consider is the coverage. Some photographers include all day coverage, while others merely focus on the ceremony and reception. Decide up front what you want covered and figure the extra hours into the overall price. Each photographer provides a basic “package” of photos, so take into account what you actually receive. How many different albums are available?. Will you reorder additional photos or receive a CD of images?. This should all be taken into account when you are comparing photographers.

Tip 4.
If a photographer has a website, chances are he will also have a blog you can read. If there are many posts on the blog about recent jobs you will have a pretty good idea about the quality of work being produced by all the business he is receiving.

Have you ever felt as if you are living with aman who is verbally abusive? Here are a few tips to help you find out. Most women fail to see the signs that they are living with verbally abusive men.

It is essential to note that an abusive relationship does not have to be be one where your partner inflicts any physical harm on you. Although domestic violence of this kind is the most common type of abuse that we hear of today, verbal abuse can be every bit as, if not at times, more severe than a physically abusive relationship. Very rarely do women , whose husbands don’t hit them, notice that they are in a verbally abusive relationship.

Remember that there is no assurance that verbally abusive men will not turn into someone who will physically abuse you. As the tension between you and him escalates it could in certain cases lead to him using physical violence upon you.

Verbally abusive men will eventually make you feel as if you are good-for-nothing and you will suffer both psychologically and emotionally, even if it takes a while for you to admit it. It is natural for the victim to be in denial, as frequently they are made to believe that the partner loves them dearly and is doing certain things for your own well-being. Your self-pride will plunge as you will be used to constantly hearing insults flung at you and a lot of scorn and sarcasm.

Verbally abusive men may also keep trying to belittle you over things that don’t matter.

You should keep in mind that living with and verbally abusive men could also have a great impact on your kids. As they grow up seeing you being abused by their father over and over again, they too may develop various behavioral problems apart from suffering emotionally as a result of what they have to go through.

If you are not sure about whether your partner is one of those verbally abusive men, try seeing a counselor and explain your situation and what you are going through. You could also try speaking to people you trust, such as a close friend or other members of your family.

It is essential that you realise that no matter how much you love and care for your partner, the best thing you could do for yourself , is to get out of this relationship. Verbally abusive men will not make it easy for you. He may make numerous attempts to make you go back, but you have to stand firm and leave. Tell yourself that you can get through it. Do things that you enjoy doing and keep yourself as busy as possible to stop thinking about him.